The Irrational Fear of Being Alone

2025-06-11T19:06:34-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Breakups & Divorce, Confidence, Divorce, Huffington Post, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The fear of being alone is terrifying for most people I know. We've been led to believe that having someone is better than having no one. This message runs deep in our social fabric and is the basis of many single's discontent. Attached to this myth is the belief that being single mean "unwanted" instead of taking one's time to choosing wisely. The fear of being alone is an irrational construct. Alone doesn't mean "lonely." Yet, many [...]

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Why Are You Still Single?

2024-05-24T15:51:59-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Single|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

I have a dear friend in her early 40’s. She’s got it all, a great personality and a great life. As a dedicated triathlete she’s physically fit and attractive. Well dressed, well-bred, and owns her own apartment in Manhattan (no small feat). She’s inclusive, warm and open. Oh. And… she’s single. She recently met a guy online who was knocked out by her photos, bio and personality on the phone. He’d found the “total package.” So, he asked her ”Why are you still single?” This [...]

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The Big Secret Every Single Needs to Know

2024-05-24T15:51:09-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Single|Tags: , , , , , , , , |

Are you single? There’s a big secret you need to know. When you learn the truth of this secret your entire life will change for the better. Why is it that you don’t know this secret? It’s one of perspective. Far too often, single people focus on the fact that they’re “alone.” When in public, they notice all the couples holding hands. At the movies, it seems as though everyone else has a date but them. Through the lens of this perspective singles often [...]

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Want Love? Enjoy Being Single!

2024-05-24T15:50:41-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Single|Tags: , , , , , , , |

So, you want love. But right now you’re single. What’s the best way to activate love? Enjoy being single. Do it today. Do it now. Many single’s feel uncomfortable in the “in between” times while waiting loves entry. The tendency its to equate “being single” with waiting for happiness. Wrong move. It’s the waiting that slows down the forward movement toward gaining partnership. We all need to rethink the “single phase.” Single doesn’t mean incomplete. Single doesn’t mean one is faulty or missing out on [...]

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Why Smart Professionals Are Stupid Daters

2025-06-11T19:09:36-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Love and Life, Dating Advice, Dating Games, Dating News, Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help|Tags: , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post A successful venture capitalist can distinguish between a company of true merit and one of false flash, yet fail to see the same in the woman he’s dating. An accomplished businesswoman can walk into a job interview thinking, They’re crazy if they don’t hire me, yet wonder if her date finds her worthy. And the seasoned golf pro can read an undulating green, but can’t make sense of his partner’s behavior. How’s this possible? Why do smart, confident and [...]

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