Dating isn't an interview. Targeted questions to extract ones merit isn't communication. It's judgement. When response is the goal, guard and skepticism attend automatically. The commonly used "10 question format" backfires as it increases the potential for false information. This style of assessing compatibility leaves both individuals disillusioned and frustrated. Interrogation isn't dating. Ferreting out desired answers and/or calculating errors, cannot lead you to the truth. Only an open heart will provide the answers you seek. I've spent the better half of my adulthood as [...]