You're ready to meet someone special. You've done all the preliminary work required to set yourself up for success. You've gotten clear on the qualities you need in a partner and know the type of relationship you want. What's the next step to take for romance to happen? You must be accessible. Unless you want to date the pizza delivery guy or the female UPS employee, leaving the house is a necessity. Even if you're an avid online dater all your at-home swiping requires an in-person meeting. Dating is a numbers game for [...]

The ultimate form of seduction may be different than what you’d imagine. Unlike the long-held ideology that allure is created by push/pull tactics, games and distancing— the key to all attraction, is warmth. When you think of the most charming and engaging people you’ve ever met, they were undoubtedly warm. Warmth is the quality that opens the hardest of hearts. It allows an ease of inner guard defense. It allows those in its presence to feel safe, “to feel.” This is not the false warmth [...]

Getting to partnership is a process. The first part of which involves you. You must be very clear about the type of connection you want. Once that is formulated, in day-to-day life you will continue to send that message out into the world. You can't get to partnership by sending out mixed signals. Dating for fun and sexual liaisons is one idea, and long-term partnership another. If you haven't focused clearly on your preference, you will attract a partner with their own preference which may [...]