I’m often asked when to pull the plug on a failing relationship. When is there hope and when is it really over? Logic dictates that we should map out a course of action and prepare for (what may be) the inevitable. And though clients want me to give them this answer, they’re the only one’s who know when it’s really over for them. I recently got a letter from a woman who wants to save her marriage. She’s taken every step possible to correct the [...]
Are you stuck in the “friend zone? It’s a rotten position to play when you’d prefer to be the “lover.” If you want to flip from friend to lover, here’s how to negotiate the mechanics of that choice: Should you tell them? Yes. Speaking up and owning your truth is the hallmark of empowerment and confidence. Courage and conviction show you know yourself and have the internal strength to speak your mind, without fear. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If love [...]
There was a time in history when the word dating meant “courtship.” It was the formal process by which one proved their merit for a committed partnership. Today, the word “dating” is the polite term for “sleeping with a person.” It doesn’t imply a future partnership, nor sexual exclusivity. Many relationship-minded singles are finding themselves in the grey area of modern dating. To end the confusion, here are 8 signs you’re “Going Nowhere.” 1. He/she doesn’t make plans to secure your time: You don’t know [...]
Traditional vows of commitment don’t necessitate a traditional relationship. The beauty of modern marriage is that you don’t have to follow yesterday's rules. You needn’t take on the historic pattern of how it should look or how it should function. Modern couples are far too evolved to want to re-create an existing formula. Yet, they may long for this established statement of their love. Inside this archetype, the challenge is to create what is real and true for both individuals. Last night, I had dinner [...]
Dating is a venue for creating a rewarding connection with another person. We want to believe all of this just happens naturally. Sometimes it does. However, the ease we assume should be automatic is actually the result of having these five factors understood and exhibited: 1. Know Yourself: Know your true nature and disposition. This allows you to lead with your strengths. What’s your natural style of communication? If you’re prone to light banter and playfulness, then go on your date with the intention of [...]
