9 Months. 98 Men. Here’s What I’ve Learned

2025-06-11T19:08:18-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Love and Life, Dating Advice, Dating News, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Online Dating, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post I hate dating. There. I’ve said it. Let’s be clear about the mechanics of this concept. Dating is only a flirtatious first sniff of what may later be mounted. No more, no less. And like the unwilling sled dog harnessed in line, my soul squirms at the thought of having to “put my best foot forward” to gain a man’s sniff of approval. Dating is the required presentational stage for a possible future interlude. For this very reason, [...]

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Why Smart Professionals Are Stupid Daters

2025-06-11T19:09:36-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Love and Life, Dating Advice, Dating Games, Dating News, Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help|Tags: , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post A successful venture capitalist can distinguish between a company of true merit and one of false flash, yet fail to see the same in the woman he’s dating. An accomplished businesswoman can walk into a job interview thinking, They’re crazy if they don’t hire me, yet wonder if her date finds her worthy. And the seasoned golf pro can read an undulating green, but can’t make sense of his partner’s behavior. How’s this possible? Why do smart, confident and [...]

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The Unbroken Heart

2025-06-11T19:10:31-04:00By |Categories: Article, Article - Love and Life, Breakups & Divorce, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Women, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post Rare, but it does exist. I know a woman who has never had her heart broken. Something inside her insists upon her leaving the man she is with before any emotional damage can occur. I marvel at this. She doesn’t struggle with conflicting feelings. They simply evaporate. She’s not cold and shallow, as one might imagine. She’s open and loving. How does this happen? Most of us have had to experience a broken heart to restore us to [...]

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The New World of Dating and Relationships

2024-05-24T15:42:29-04:00By |Categories: Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: , , |

Relationships are far more complicated than in former times. Having evolved as a species, our needs eclipse those of former generations. Whether we want "the one" or "the one for now," factors by which people traditionally dated and mated are currently in flux. Humans desire meaningful connections regardless of where we are in our lives and personal evolution. The imperative of all Life is to advance and loved ones enrich that experience. The question remains--- as we advance, what form will our relationships take? Only [...]

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Endings are Beginnings

2024-09-24T17:22:06-04:00By |Categories: Article, Article - Love and Life, Breakups & Divorce|Tags: , , , |

We know certain truths about the physical world in which we live, yet want to create a different story when it comes to love. We can easily observe the changing of the seasons. We know life contains the reality of birth and death. But in love, we want things to be different. We want ease, security and the promise of no pain. This is the very fantasy that causes our discontentment. It's  only upon understanding that there are two sides to life, as well as [...]

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