The King Within the Queen

2025-06-10T16:28:08-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Modern Love, Confidence, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The rigors of modern dating can leave many young women wondering about their chances for future happiness in love. Men seem to have endless options for romance, creating little reason to partner in earnest. How does a woman find meaningful partnership in today’s world? The stakes are high. The odds seem stacked against us. The advice we’re given couldn’t be worse. It’s not your fault that you’re confused and frustrated. The magazines you read and movies you watch [...]

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Confessions of a Lazy Lover

2025-06-11T19:01:32-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Confidence, Dating News, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post I must make this admission: I’m lazy lover. I apply no energy whatsoever to creating a love life. Why any man would seek my company at this juncture in my life is a complete mystery to me. I lack all desire to be receptive to a man’s advances and give no hint of interest. My attitude of laziness is compounded beyond its formal definition, as I have neither guilt nor remorse for my current state of affairs. I [...]

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Is the Price of Admission to the Game of Love Too High?

2025-06-11T19:05:23-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Dating Advice, Dating Games, Dating News, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Sex|Tags: , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post This is the best of all times to be a man. Sex isn’t the promise of a future partnership. It’s a prize that’s given freely at the beginning of a “who-knows-what” type of romantic interaction. Standing in the middle of this sociological shift, I look around my world to see how other women are feeling about this current state of affairs. Are they happy? I’m not. Do they feel powerful? I don’t feel empowered from this position. Is [...]

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The Irrational Fear of Being Alone

2025-06-11T19:06:34-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Breakups & Divorce, Confidence, Divorce, Huffington Post, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The fear of being alone is terrifying for most people I know. We've been led to believe that having someone is better than having no one. This message runs deep in our social fabric and is the basis of many single's discontent. Attached to this myth is the belief that being single mean "unwanted" instead of taking one's time to choosing wisely. The fear of being alone is an irrational construct. Alone doesn't mean "lonely." Yet, many [...]

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9 Months. 98 Men. Here’s What I’ve Learned

2025-06-11T19:08:18-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Love and Life, Dating Advice, Dating News, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Online Dating, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post I hate dating. There. I’ve said it. Let’s be clear about the mechanics of this concept. Dating is only a flirtatious first sniff of what may later be mounted. No more, no less. And like the unwilling sled dog harnessed in line, my soul squirms at the thought of having to “put my best foot forward” to gain a man’s sniff of approval. Dating is the required presentational stage for a possible future interlude. For this very reason, [...]

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