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Three Types of Men

2024-06-19T17:08:48-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Article, Article - Older Women / Younger Men, Dating Advice, Older Women/Younger Men|Tags: Articles: Friends, Family & Children|

When it comes to the issue of children, there are three types of men: Those that definitely want children Those that definitely don’t want children Those that are neutral—they will go with the woman’s choice It’s important for a man to know which of these three categories he falls into, and to then be able to state his position. Until recently, men were hesitant to outwardly claim they didn’t want children. Times have changed. Society, in general, is more allowing for individual choice to be [...]

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Women from Long-Standing Marriages

2024-06-19T17:10:49-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Article, Article - Older Women / Younger Men, Older Women/Younger Men|Tags: Articles: Friends, Family & Children|

There are increasingly larger groups of women each year who re-enter the dating scene. With divorce rates at a known 60% (and incoming statistics pushing this level higher), the reality of having new sexual partners is becoming a way of life. We live, and learn. And, hopefully, we grow in the process. Sexuality is one form of gained self-knowledge. Having come from years of marriage, many women are eager to explore the new world of partnerships. But for many, it’s not only scary, but confusing. [...]

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Baggage

2024-06-19T17:11:23-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Article, Article - Older Women / Younger Men, Dating Advice, Dating Games, Older Women/Younger Men|Tags: Articles: Dating & Relationships|

Every relationship has its baggage. Every human being has their own set of challenges. And when two people come together, that baggage creates issues. To imagine there is a “perfect” person without baggage, is to hope for the impossible. It’s not possible for us, and it’s not possible for them. Accepting baggage, as routine, is a step forward in rational thinking. There is only question we need to ourselves when bringing someone new into our lives; “Are these the types of issues I want to [...]

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Social Functions; Include/Exclude?

2024-05-24T14:56:44-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Older Women / Younger Men, Older Women/Younger Men|Tags: Articles: Dating & Relationships, Older Women, relationship expert, Younger men|

When the younger man is significantly younger, the question of inclusion vs. exclusion may arise when considering social functions with friends and family. It is also a question that comes up when in a new relationship, as opposed to casual dating. What's the right choice? In the older woman/younger man dynamic, there are occasions that beg for discretion, and occasions that require inclusion. The choice should be determined through honest discussion and mutual consideration. To discover the correct choice for inclusion/exclusion, there must first be [...]

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Dating and Mating over 40

2024-05-24T14:54:41-04:00By Susan Winter|Categories: Article, Article - Older Women / Younger Men, Older Women/Younger Men|Tags: Articles: Dating & Relationships|

1. What are the rules? There are no rules. If we apply rules of romance from former time periods, we ask modern day individuals to squeeze themselves into a smaller version of who they are. Social changes, including female empowerment and open sexuality, call for new ways of being— therefore each woman needs to create a new design of their our making, in alignment with their specific desires and goals. Roles of defined behavior cannot work in a consciously emerging world. That’s why self awareness [...]

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