By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The birth of the 21st Century didn’t cause our computers to crash. Something more insidious happened. The rules of courtship changed. Men stopped pursuing. In this new millennium, it’s clear that women are now the ones left in charge of romantic “pursuit.” This bizarre social shift leaves many of us wondering about the current expectations of pursuit and showing interest in a man. This cultural twist has created the very thing women most detest; men are being trained [...]