Why Are You Still Single?

2025-06-10T16:22:51-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Confidence, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Women, Huffington Post, Online Dating, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post I have a dear friend in her early 40s. She’s got it all, a great personality and a great life. As a dedicated triathlete she’s physically fit and attractive. Well dressed, well bred, and owns her own apartment in Manhattan (no small feat). She’s inclusive, warm and open. Oh. And... she’s single. She recently met a guy online who was knocked out by her photos, bio and personality on the phone. He’d finally found the “total package.” So, [...]

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Putting the Breaks on a Backpedaling Partner

2025-06-10T16:27:08-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Love and Life, Breakups & Divorce, Confidence, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post There’s a point in every dating scenario when we know it’s over. Either they aren’t moving toward partnership, or we recognize they’re not the one for us. It doesn’t have to be tragic or sad. We don’t need to play the victim just because society sold us this “story.” We can see this experience as a natural occurrence of two people who aren’t on the same page, or we can allow it to destroy our self-respect. For reasons [...]

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The King Within the Queen

2025-06-10T16:28:08-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Modern Love, Confidence, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The rigors of modern dating can leave many young women wondering about their chances for future happiness in love. Men seem to have endless options for romance, creating little reason to partner in earnest. How does a woman find meaningful partnership in today’s world? The stakes are high. The odds seem stacked against us. The advice we’re given couldn’t be worse. It’s not your fault that you’re confused and frustrated. The magazines you read and movies you watch [...]

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Confessions of a Lazy Lover

2025-06-11T19:01:32-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Confidence, Dating News, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post I must make this admission: I’m lazy lover. I apply no energy whatsoever to creating a love life. Why any man would seek my company at this juncture in my life is a complete mystery to me. I lack all desire to be receptive to a man’s advances and give no hint of interest. My attitude of laziness is compounded beyond its formal definition, as I have neither guilt nor remorse for my current state of affairs. I [...]

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The Irrational Fear of Being Alone

2025-06-11T19:06:34-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Breakups & Divorce, Confidence, Divorce, Huffington Post, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The fear of being alone is terrifying for most people I know. We've been led to believe that having someone is better than having no one. This message runs deep in our social fabric and is the basis of many single's discontent. Attached to this myth is the belief that being single mean "unwanted" instead of taking one's time to choosing wisely. The fear of being alone is an irrational construct. Alone doesn't mean "lonely." Yet, many [...]

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