The King Within the Queen

2025-06-10T16:28:08-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article - Modern Love, Confidence, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self Help, Self-Esteem|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The rigors of modern dating can leave many young women wondering about their chances for future happiness in love. Men seem to have endless options for romance, creating little reason to partner in earnest. How does a woman find meaningful partnership in today’s world? The stakes are high. The odds seem stacked against us. The advice we’re given couldn’t be worse. It’s not your fault that you’re confused and frustrated. The magazines you read and movies you watch [...]

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Confessions of a Lazy Lover

2025-06-11T19:01:32-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Confidence, Dating News, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Self Help, Self-Esteem, Single|Tags: , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post I must make this admission: I’m lazy lover. I apply no energy whatsoever to creating a love life. Why any man would seek my company at this juncture in my life is a complete mystery to me. I lack all desire to be receptive to a man’s advances and give no hint of interest. My attitude of laziness is compounded beyond its formal definition, as I have neither guilt nor remorse for my current state of affairs. I [...]

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So, I’m Supposed to Chase You?

2025-06-11T19:02:45-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love, Dating Advice, Dating Games, Dating News, Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women, Dating Trends, Huffington Post, Relationship Expert, Relationships|Tags: , , , , , |

By Susan Winter for The Huffington Post The birth of the 21st Century didn’t cause our computers to crash. Something more insidious happened. The rules of courtship changed. Men stopped pursuing. In this new millennium, it’s clear that women are now the ones left in charge of romantic “pursuit.” This bizarre social shift leaves many of us wondering about the current expectations of pursuit and showing interest in a man. This cultural twist has created the very thing women most detest; men are being trained [...]

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How to Flip from “Friend” to Lover

2024-05-24T15:50:07-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: , , , , , , |

Are you stuck in the “friend zone? It’s a rotten position to play when you’d prefer to be the “lover.” If you want to flip from friend to lover, here’s how to negotiate the mechanics of that choice: Should you tell them? Yes. Speaking up and owning your truth is the hallmark of empowerment and confidence. Courage and conviction show you know yourself and have the internal strength to speak your mind, without fear. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. If love [...]

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Handling “Checked” and “Unchecked Baggage”

2024-05-24T15:48:20-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: , , , , |

The “perfect” partner doesn’t exist. Accepting baggage’s existence is a step forward in rational thinking. There’s only question we need to ourselves when bringing someone new into our lives; “Are these the types of issues I’m willing to handle?” Meeting a romantic prospect is like buying a “blind item.” At first glance everything looks great. In our first meetings, far too much information is missing to form an accurate assessment of what lies beneath the surface. People tend to be on their best behavior when [...]

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