Speak Your Truth

2024-05-24T15:30:58-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Love and Life|Tags: , , , , , , |

No matter what your romantic style; long-term relationships, casual sex, or a mixture of both…make sure you’re getting your needs met by speaking your truth. If you know you only want marriage, say so. If you only feel comfortable in a monogamous relationship with sexual exclusivity, say so. Be direct. You have nothing to lose. A serious partner won’t be put off by this approach. Knowing what you want and stating your desire has long been held as a “social taboo.” Far too often [...]

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Create Your Vision

2024-05-24T15:26:00-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Love and Life, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self-Esteem, Videos|Tags: , , , |

Before stepping out into the world of dating you’ll need to create your vision. You may have just left a disastrous partnership. Or, you may be in the process of getting clear on what you want in light of your past dating experiences. Whatever your starting point, it’s a good idea is to formulate a “best-case scenario” vision that works for you. It works, because you already know it works. Here’s a simple guide to finding your ideal vision in a new mate. It defines [...]

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Playing the Victim

2024-09-24T17:22:06-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Love and Life, Breakups & Divorce|Tags: , , , |

How many times have I seen a group of individuals rally to the side of a "victim," as he/she bemoans the cruel breakup of a love affair? More times than I care to count. This is a classic scene, one replayed endlessly. The script is the same each time, as the wounded man or woman berates and attacks their errant partner, while professing their sad state of affairs. Through extension, they work their way into the general ideology that “women/men are no good,” stirring the [...]

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Endings are Beginnings

2024-09-24T17:22:06-04:00By |Categories: Article, Article - Love and Life, Breakups & Divorce|Tags: , , , |

We know certain truths about the physical world in which we live, yet want to create a different story when it comes to love. We can easily observe the changing of the seasons. We know life contains the reality of birth and death. But in love, we want things to be different. We want ease, security and the promise of no pain. This is the very fantasy that causes our discontentment. It's  only upon understanding that there are two sides to life, as well as [...]

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Time Alone

2024-05-24T15:32:51-04:00By |Categories: Article, Article - Love and Life|Tags: |

In the height of a new romance, there's a desire to spend all our available time with our partner. The thrill of finally meeting someone who wants what we want, and wants that thing with us, is delirious. The tendency is strong to seclude ourselves from friends and the world, as we discover this new love and create its foundation. That's natural, and often desirable. However, it's ultimately balance that we seek. While very fiber in our body may want to spend endless days with [...]

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