Speak Your Truth

2024-05-24T15:30:58-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Love and Life|Tags: , , , , , , |

No matter what your romantic style; long-term relationships, casual sex, or a mixture of both…make sure you’re getting your needs met by speaking your truth. If you know you only want marriage, say so. If you only feel comfortable in a monogamous relationship with sexual exclusivity, say so. Be direct. You have nothing to lose. A serious partner won’t be put off by this approach. Knowing what you want and stating your desire has long been held as a “social taboo.” Far too often [...]

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What is This?

2024-05-24T15:40:46-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Modern Love|Tags: , , , |

The 21st Century didn't cause servers to crash or the world to end. But, it did mark a definitive shift in the dating experience. Before that time, a person didn't need to qualify what was happening when dating. People entered dating was a method of establishing partnership. We didn't need to ask, "Where's this going?" We knew that continued contact with a person resulted in sexual expression. Inherent in that format, coupledom was established. No one needed to ask and no one needed to clarify [...]

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Create Your Vision

2024-05-24T15:26:00-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Love and Life, Dating Advice, Dating Tips for Men, Dating Tips for Women, Love, Relationship Expert, Relationships, Self-Esteem, Videos|Tags: , , , |

Before stepping out into the world of dating you’ll need to create your vision. You may have just left a disastrous partnership. Or, you may be in the process of getting clear on what you want in light of your past dating experiences. Whatever your starting point, it’s a good idea is to formulate a “best-case scenario” vision that works for you. It works, because you already know it works. Here’s a simple guide to finding your ideal vision in a new mate. It defines [...]

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Playing the Victim

2024-09-24T17:22:06-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Article - Love and Life, Breakups & Divorce|Tags: , , , |

How many times have I seen a group of individuals rally to the side of a "victim," as he/she bemoans the cruel breakup of a love affair? More times than I care to count. This is a classic scene, one replayed endlessly. The script is the same each time, as the wounded man or woman berates and attacks their errant partner, while professing their sad state of affairs. Through extension, they work their way into the general ideology that “women/men are no good,” stirring the [...]

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Is He Playing You?

2024-06-19T17:13:59-04:00By |Categories: Advice, Article, Dating Advice, Dating Games|Tags: |

When initially meeting a highly eager younger man in pursuit, the question of intent comes to mind. What’s his motive? Men reveal themselves constantly— in small seemingly insignificant ways and in glaringly obvious ways. If he’s pursuing you, assume at the least, he’s physically attracted. That means, “Yes. I’d sleep with this woman.” There’re only two boxes men check off in their mind— yes, and no. If it’s just sex, determine if that’s what you want as well. If you know you want more than [...]

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